They are:
(1) FOOD REJECTION: In every home, women are the ministers of kitchen affairs. And they always make sure this “ministry” is up and doing, meeting the needs of the whole family. Many atimes they may come back home late in the night tired yet they will make sure they cook for their husbands and children. The time spent in the kitchen is not tiring or painful compared to when the husband reject the food.
No matter the reason why a man rejects his wife's food, the truth is she is deeply hurt and emotionally disturbed. But most men don't know this. Though she may not say it but she detests it. Husbands, never reject your wives' food.
(2) EMBARRASSMENT: Wives want to be treated with dignity and respect though they may make certain mistakes but hate to be rebuked openly. They want correction but in the secret. No woman wants to be rebuked or shouted at in the public only bossy husbands embarrass their wives publicly. It is degrading to do so. Since bedroom is the capital city of every marriage, correct her in the bedroom and she will takes to correction and show more love and submission to you.
(3) COMPARISM: Women hate to be compared to other women. But some men are fond of doing this to their wives and this is causing problems at home. All “good women” have their weak points but it will take a close rapport to be able to discover them. And this is what men don't know.
(4) LIVING IN A FAMILY HOUSE: Be it in Africa or other parts of the world, it is a proven truth that women hate living in their husband's family house. This has eroded happiness and joy from many wives. In a family house, there are restrictions to what you can do for one another, third party interference from the mothers-in-law, Fathers-in-law, and the husband's siblings are always prevalent in such environment. Most times, the wife is treated as a family slave. Women hate this; they want a separate apartment that is even far from the family house where they can live with their husband with peace.
Wives want a family love not a family house.
(5) They hate to be blame for their children's disobedience or waywardness “He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes”Prov.13:24.
God has comitted child's discipline into the hand of the fathers not to the mothers but collective parenting will give you the children of your dream. As a father stop blaming your wife for your children's unruly behaviours rather, trained them together, take the blame together and sing the praises of one another in their excellence.
Blogger Comment
Facebook Comment